Do I get to attend that meeting?
Will I be picked for that project?
Should I speak up here?
We know we’re growing up when these questions become:
Where is the meeting where the work I want to do is happening?
What is my project and who should I invite to collaborate?
What is the truth that is asking to be told here?
Maturity means progressively thinking less about things like standing and status and more about purpose and initiative.
YoRocko! 
at some point, we have to realize we are not crashing the party. we’ve been invited, and those snacks are for us.
And so is the clean up