The Year I Live Into What It Would Look Like To Not Wonder What It Would Look Like

I hereby resolve to use the expressions “live into” and “what would it look like” exactly zero times in 2015.

In their place I will employ speech that will commit me and the people I’m working with to specific, measurable aims that pursue outcomes we state at the start and for which we can be held accountable should we fail.

How’s that for a New Years Resolution?

Which Community?

Here’s a thought to start the year:

“The community” doesn’t exist. It’s an abstraction. Let’s drop it in the service of people and groups of people in need of something more durable than what most of us mean when we say “community.”

This thought has been brewing since I heard a church consultant state the obvious to a room full of pastors and elders, that the church ought to serve “the community” rather than its own members. “Ought” is where the weight falls in that sentiment. I’ve never met a church leader who said the opposite, that the church ought to serve those already in it and that we ought to leave the community to its own devices.

We may act that way out of instinct, but nobody is proclaiming that God so loved the church . . . .

Maybe this is the problem: maybe “the community” is too vague a thing to serve in a concrete way. Maybe churches remain inward-focused because we don’t know “the community” well enough anymore. If that’s the case, then there’s a cacophony of consultants and demographic studies we can pore over to learn all about our . . . “community.”

But we still won’t know it. Because it’s not a thing.

Our cities, neighborhoods, and zip codes are populated by countless (and frequently overlapping) networks–communities–of relationships: schools and their students’ families; youth soccer leagues; colleges; adult softball teams; the chamber of commerce; groups of teenagers who play video games at one anothers’ houses; panhandlers outside the downtown shops; homeless encampments under freeway bridges. The community–such as it is–comes about from the interactions among all of these networks of relationships, which means that the community is always changing as those relational networks change.

What if a church tried to serve one of those relational networks instead of “the community?” What if, when we said we were serving “the community,” we could narrate the people and relationships we mean?

The next time somebody makes mention of “the community” where you live, ask them, “Which one?”

A Blogger Looks at 2014

WordPress provides this really valuable year-end report. Here are some highlights.

First, a note of gratitude: blogging is about conversation. learning, and growth. Thanks to all of you for helping me learn and understand. As this calendar shows, I started posting five times a week roundabout September of this year, and I wish I’d made that move sooner. It’s mostly a personal discipline, and I hope it makes the blog more readable.

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The most read and commented upon post of the year was the one about churches being the thing that needs to back off peoples’ schedules

This post about communion didn’t generate any conversation, but it got shared a lot.

My most active conversation partner here was Marci Glass. If I can write just a little bit like her I’m doing okay.

Here’s a picture of the other top commentators.

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Click here to see the complete report.

Thanks for reading this year. Here’s to a thoughtful and challenging 2015!

What’s In Your Bag?

I have this amazing orange Osprey messenger bag that can hold a bunch of books, a laptop, noise cancelling headphones, a glasses case, and a whole lot more. I got it three years ago, and though I’ve picked up newer bags since then, it’s the one I come back to again and again. I’ve started dismissing my other bags with a remorseful look at the Osprey that says, “I know and I’m sorry. You were always more than enough.”

But for the past several Sundays, though, I have left my beautiful orange messenger bag with the padded shoulder strap and sturdy side mesh pockets perfect for a water bottle, keys, or even pens at home and commuted to church with nothing by my keys, phone, and wallet. The laptop awaits me in the office already. The books? What? Am I going to breeze through a couple of chapters in between the Introit and the Call to Worship? I don’t need all that stuff I tote around during the week on Sunday morning (truthfully, I don’t need most of it during the week, either). On Sunday morning I can travel light. I should travel light.

I’m starting to believe that I’m sufficient with what I’ve got in my pockets to do the work I’m called to do. All the books in all the bags are tossed in there on the way out of the office at the end of a day that feels less-than-productive and with the guilty thought, “Well, maybe if I can read some Barth before bed I will have earned my ordination for the day.” The bag is a gimmick meant to fool myself more than my congregants or my peers in other professions that I’m really working at this and deserve to be taken seriously. I am and I do, but not because of the bag or what’s in it.

Travel light, my friends.

“Nice Is Different Than Good”

Revoke my thespian card, but I’ve only just seen Into The Woods, and that on film, not stage.

This line from Little Red Riding Hood struck me all the same: “Nice is different than good.” It has a ring of truth. Is it true?

I try to be nice all the time, so that the thought of being considered not nice by someone, anyone makes me sick. I have placed a premium on niceness in my work and my character and my relationships since forever. I want to be thought of as smart, yes. Hard working, sure. But please think me nice above all.

The problem with this fixation with niceness is obvious: effectiveness sometimes requires, if not outright meanness, then a firmness that cares more for outcomes than it does for the impression of one’s niceness. Nice work is different than good work, because good work may require meanness.

But is niceness ever the work? In a stingy world, is the person who is genuinely and authentically nice uniquely valuable? Does niceness add something effectiveness can’t?

Stump: Stars by Murphy Daley

Stump has been a blogging project of Claremont Presbyterian Church. Merry Christmas!

It’s a sign and one we were supposed to listen to: The star over Bethlehem.

It MEANT SOMETHING.

I was raised to think that listening to stars—aka astrology—was foolish superstition at best.  But there is always this story. Jesus had a star to announce his birth.

There is something to the stars. They have something to tell us.

We know a lot more about stars than we used to. SCIENCE has uncovered that many properties of gas. Our sun is a star, and we know that it is a mass of incandescent gas.

The sun doesn’t feel like a star, though. The sun is right here up close, and stars are tiny. Except they aren’t. They are far far bigger than our planet.

So mysterious. They inspire contemplation and ambition. Reach for the stars! We know we can’t reach them and yet the trying is still worth it.

The stars are telling us things. If we go scientific, they give hints about the shape of the universe. If we go mystical they whisper of a community where we belong. And if we go stand outside on a clear night, they put us in perspective. Yes, we are small. And yes we are vastly capable.

There is so much more to learn.

Those wise men seemed to be the only ones paying attention. Funny that. No one else in the story mentioned the star. But those wise men

WISE men

Were paying enough attention to hear what the stars were telling them. They packed up and took action.

I aspire to be that wise. I’d like to notice the subtle signs and be the first to know.

I’m more like the shepherds, I think. It takes a wallop with a 2×4, like a host of angels singing. Undeniable signal that something special is going on.

There are signs everywhere we turn, above our heads and below our feet. I aspire to be wise enough to see them.

Murphy Daley is cross posting today’s piece on her website www.writtenbymurphy.com. You can sign up to receive the Weekly Wonder in your inbox by Clicking Here.

Stump: Angels by Jennifer Wolfe

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At the top of the Castel Sant’Angelo in Vatican City is a majestic statue of the mighty Archangel Michael. He stands ready with his sword outstretched, ready to strike down his demon foe. It’s a powerful image, perfect for the military fortress that the Castel Sant’Angelo is. It speaks of the might and power of the Almighty God, his angels ready to do battle in his name.

It’s hardly the image I would conjure up for an angel who would show up in a shepherd’s field after the birth of a small, innocent child. Somehow, the vengeful Michael standing guard in the Vatican doesn’t strike me with the same, bucolic warmth and fuzziness as an image of cute, round faced cherubs who look suspiciously like any of my friend’s children dressed up in sheets and tinsel halos. And yet, when we think about it, we aren’t talking about just sweet angels showing up in that field in Bethlehem that night. The heavenly host that appeared to those shepherds were indeed fierce beings, like Michael and the awe inspiring Gabriel, for this is not just a child being born. This is God revealing himself in human form to the world. No wonder the shepherds were “sore afraid”, to have that lot show up to sing, “Glory to God in the highest!” It must have been terrifying!

Angels in the Bible always serve as one of God’s most direct lines of communication with humans. It is three angels who visit Abram and tell him he’s to have a child in his old age. It is an angel who wrestles with Jacob. An angel is the one who burns Isaiah’s lips with a coal, purifying him. It was an angel that appeared to Zechariah in the temple. It is at those moments when God most wants us to see and understand him that he sends the greatest of his messengers to men. And it is never for small things, it is always for something that will change the world. What was more world-altering than that night? It is little wonder an entire host of them was needed to proclaim that the Christ, the Messiah, had come to earth.

How frightening must that night have been for the shepherds? And yet, how amazing a thing it must have been! No wonder they rushed to tell everyone of what they saw. They had been given the most amazing news of all by beings they could hardly comprehend. They were far braver than I to stand in the face of that. In the rush of the holiday season, and in the sweetness of our traditional Nativity plays, it is easy to forget just how awesome this event was in the world, of God coming amongst us. It was worthy enough of a being as fierce and powerful as Michael to proclaim, “Glory to God in the highest, and peace on earth.”

Jennifer Wolfe is a self-confessed church history nerd and all around geek living in Monrovia, California. Formerly of both Hampton, Virginia and Milan, Missouri, she is a graduate of both UCLA and Fuller Theological Seminary and currently works at Azusa Pacific University while she attends Claremont Graduate University as a Ph.D. student. She loves to write, sing, do nerdy activities like playing RPG and table top games, cooking, and traveling.

Stump: Gifts by Jennifer Wolfe

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While sitting at my younger brother’s house in St. Louis, I chatted with nine-year-old Jordan and five-year-old Logan about everything and nothing, quietly typing away on my iPad.  It didn’t take Mom and Dad long to figure out Aunt Jennifer was up to some surreptitious Christmas shopping on the sly for her two nephews.  I successfully hunted on Amazon for the video game Jordan said he wanted and the cowboy outfit for precocious Logan, ideas cultivated out of their aunt’s sneaky conversation skills and the true desire to match a gift with their little personalities.  I didn’t have to give them those things, I merely wanted to show them I loved them and to make their holiday a good one.

It made me think of how God often does that in our lives.  In 1 Corinthians 12, we read about the “spiritual gifts” or “charismas” given to us.  The word charisma itself speaks to the wonderful and yet unsought nature of these gifts, “karis” in Greek meaning “grace”.  These are the gifts of the Holy Spirit, endowed to each of us so that we can have the joy of benefiting others.  There are many listed in the Bible in various places, everything from prophecy, to words of wisdom, to teaching.  The list may sound daunting, but in reality it isn’t.  They are the tools each of us has been given to help those around us, to help bring the grace of God into the world.  They our gifts so that we can work in God’s kingdom here on earth and by doing so, show the world his deep and abiding love.

Each of us has different gifts, some can speak, and others can teach, and others may simply just show love to each other.  No gift is greater than the other, but each in its way is a blessing upon the world.  Whatever your gift, let it shine this advent season, show the world the grace of God as we prepare to celebrate his coming.

Jennifer Wolfe is a self-confessed church history nerd and all around geek living in Monrovia, California.  Formerly of both Hampton, Virginia and Milan, Missouri, she is a graduate of both UCLA and Fuller Theological Seminary and currently works at Azusa Pacific University while she attends Claremont Graduate University as a Ph.D. student.  She loves to write, sing, do nerdy activities like playing RPG and table top games, cooking, and traveling.

Stump: Gifts by Lillian Holden Ramirez

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Sometimes we don’t recognize our gifts.  I recently thanked God for my dyslexia.  I always thought I could accomplish more if I had normal perception, but that particular day I realized that without dyslexia, I would have experienced the world quite differently and thus would not be the person I am today.

It takes me forever to read a book;  I have no sense of direction and I often lose my car in parking lots. I couldn’t help the police by describing someone I witnessed committing a crime and I certainly couldn’t win a spelling bee!

Because dyslexia made reading painfully slow, my mother read to me extensively until I started junior high. I’m sure that listening helped develop my imagination.  From very young, I made up my own stories.  When running barefoot across a field, I was galloping on a black stallion, the wind whipping romantically through my hair.  The ant nest in our yard was the capital city of a country called Lindonia, located on the planet Amera.  I had several continuing plots running through my head at all times-I still do.

My daughter also has learning disabilities and she was complaining that she had to work twice as hard as everyone else to accomplish simple tasks. “Yes,” I agreed, “but it taught you tenacity-you’re stubborn as a mule-you never give up.” She laughed because she knew it was true.

We both work with learning disabled student, and I think our disabilities have made us better teachers.  We understand our students’ frustrations on a personal level and can pass on strategies and insights that have helped us succeed.

God gives us what we need to accomplish what He expects us to accomplish. Christmas is a good time to give thanks for all our gifts-even the ones we would like to exchange.

Remember: “All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purposes.”

Stump: The Manger by Rocky Harvey

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The first year Amanda’s mother brought out the manger scene at Christmas, she explained to Amanda the names of each figure in the antique set which had been handed down from her family.  She let Amanda hold each one carefully and repeat its name.

Little Amanda loved the animals. Each day Amanda and her mother carefully played with the animals  when the manger scene was brought down from the book shelf to Amanda’s level on the floor. Then the scene went back to the top book shelf. But there was one animal that didn’t have to go back. It was the cow. This cow was actually a cheap replacement for the original cow which had been lost. We named her ‘Holy Cow’. She remains part of Amanda’s animal collection all year but gets put back in the manger scene each Christmas.

Amanda had paid attention to more than just the animals. When Amanda’s great aunt came to visit after a hip replacement she was using a cane. Little Amanda walked over to Aunt Nancy’s chair, picked up the cane, stood it next to herself and said, “This is my shepherd’s staff.” We still refer to the cane as the shepherd’s staff.

Rocky Harvey is a grandmother who recently moved to Claremont to live near her two young granddaughters.