What is the next meaningful step? No project will get anywhere without this question. No change will be effected, no experiment attempted. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. What’s the next meaningful step?
If nobody is asking the question, it has to come from you. The answer doesn’t, though. It might; you might feel strongly about the next meaningful step. Or, just as likely, you might not. If nobody does, then maybe the thing you’re talking about isn’t really a thing.
A second question is equally important: who’s going to do it? If you don’t assign responsibility for the next meaningful step, the chances of it being completed are very small. Actually, “assign” is the wrong word. It’s about ownership. Somebody has to own the outcome of the next meaningful step because they care about it. Here again, that might be you. If it is, you should take the permission and own it; I’ve been in lots of exciting conversations that went nowhere because none of us felt authorized to own the next meaningful step.
We’re all authorized, as long as we care.
If nobody owns the next meaningful step, then the thing you’re talking about isn’t a thing, at least not yet.
One more thought on this. Collecting information often feels like a more meaningful step than it actually is.
In AA we use the phrase, “Do the next right thing.” which is really a form of prayer.
I know that phrase from this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DOY-sjUer00
This is an effective way for me to get away from saying “Oh, I’ve got lots of time, I’ll figure it out soon enough” and running out of time anyway. Thank you very much.
Thanks, I’ll be using this in my session retreat in February.
Grateful for you, Matt